Sunday, August 28, 2016
HAKUNA AJALI, KILA JAMBO LINA KUSUDI
Friday, August 26, 2016
KWANINI HATUTENDEI KAZI TUNAYOYAJUA
ACHA KUJILINGANISHA NA WATU WENGINE
Moja ya changamoto ambayo huwafanya watu wengi wasiishi katika furaha ni tabia ya kujilinganisha na watu wengine. Washindi hawajipimi kwa maendeleo ya wengine bali kwa maendeleo waliyonayo jana. Bill gates muanzilishi wa Microsoft aliwahi kusema kuwa kujilinganisha na wengine ni kujitukana mwenyewe.
Ukipenda kujilinganisha na watu wengine kuna hatari ya kudharau uwezo wako na kuanza kutazama madhaifu yako na hii itakujengea tabia ya kutofurahi hata kwa vitu ulivonavo huku ukiwa unatazama zaidi vitu vya wengine au mafanikio ya wengine.
Ukijilinganisha na wengine utaua msukumo wako wa mafanikio kwasababu kuna ambao wamekutangulia katika safari ya maendeleo, kuna ambao wamepitia vikwazo vingi au kuna ambao wamepitia njia rahisi zaidi hivo si busara kujilinganisha na watu.
Weka malengo yako na ujipime kwa malengo yako na siyo malengo ya watu wengine. Kila mtu ana malengo na mitazamo yake na dhana kuu ya maendeleo ni mfumo uliotumika na sio matokeo. Matokeo hayawezi kuwa sawa kama mifumo ni tofauti hivo ukitazama tu matokeo unaweza ingiwa na hasira kwa kutopata matokeo sawa na mwenzako.
Ukipenda kujilinganisha ma wengine utaishi kama kivuli na hautokuwa na utambulisho wako. Wanaoshindwa huangalia zaidi wanaoshinda badala ya kuangalia ushindi. Usiridhike na mafanikio yako ya nyuma...unaweza kuwa zaidi ya hapo.
JE UNAWEZAJE KUJENGA TABIA YA KUTOJILINGANISHA NA WENGINE
1. JITAMBUE : Inakupasa kujitambua wewe ni nani, vipawa vyako, uwezo wako, maarifa yako na yale unayoweza kuyafanya. Jipime kwa hayo mambo na ujiulize Je unaweza kufanya zaidi ya hapo?
2. JENGA MIFUMO: Siku zote husipokuwa na mifumo ya utendaji yako iliyojengwa na mitazamo uliyonayo kuhusu maisha lazima utajaribu kujilinganisha na matokeo yanayopatikana na mifumo inayotumiwa na wengine.
3. EPUKA MANENO YA WATU : Mara nyingi tunajikuta wahanga wa kujilinganisha na wengine kutokana na misukumo tunayoipata kutoka kwa watu wanaotuzunguka kama wazazi, watu wa karibu n.k...Lakini lazima uwe na uwezo wa kutotafakari sana maneno ya watu hasa wale wanaokushinikiza kuwa kama watu wengine.
4. KUMBUKA WEWE NDIO KIONGOZI WA MAISHA YAKO: Inakupasa utambue wewe ni kiongozi wa maisha yako, maisha yako ni kama kampuni hivo yakupasa kujua mtu pekee ambayo ana wajibika zaidi ni wewe. Hata mzazi wako sio kiongozi wa maisha yako zaidi yako wewe. Hii itakusaidia kuwa na mtazamo wa ubunifu zaidi juu ya maisha yako.
5. ANGALIA MBELE : Dereva bora ni yule anayeangalia mbele anapoendesha gari na sio kuangalia pembeni wanaomu overtake au walio ktk mwendo sawa na yeye. Siku zote usitumie muda wako mwingi kutazama wanaoku overtake. Unaweza jifunza jambo lakini si busara kujilinganisha na waƓ
Kumbuka kipimo pekee cha mafanikio yako ni malengo yako na uwezo wako na sio kujilinganisha na wengine.
Wednesday, August 24, 2016
JENGA TABIA YA UKIMYA
Tuesday, August 23, 2016
OUR ATTITUDE MATTERS
Monday, August 22, 2016
FAIDA YA JUU SANA KATIKA KAZI
Sunday, August 21, 2016
MSISIMKO WA MAISHA
Friday, August 19, 2016
NJIA ZA KUDHIHIRISHA MAONO YAKO
FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN
Tuesday, August 16, 2016
JE UNA UHUSIANO NA UNACHOKIFANYA
Monday, August 15, 2016
HUWEZI FANIKIWA ZAIDI YA MAWAZO YAKO
Watu wengi hupenda mafanikio na kukua lakini hawafanikiwi wala kukua. Kwasababu ya sheria moja ambayo ni kwamba huwezi fanikiwa zaidi ya mawazo yako. Maisha yako ya nje ni zao la mawazo yako.
Hakuna jambo linaloweza kutokea kama hujalifikiria kwa wakati wowote katika maisha yako. Unaweza kupenda kufanikiwa lakini je ulishawahi kufikiria na kutafakari mafanikio. Huwezi kuwa na fikra za ukomo halafu uwe na ziada. Mfumo wako wa fikra unadhiirika kwa kauli zako na mitazamo yako juu ya jambo fulani.
Ukishakiri kwamba jambo haliwezekani ni kwasababu umefikiria haliwezekani na halitokuja kuwezekana kwako hadi ubadilishe jinsi unavoliwaza hilo jambo. Hapo pekee ndo utaweza kufungua ubongo wako juu ya njia za kuliweza.
Myles munroe alishawahi kusema ugumu wa jambo fulani unatokana na ufahamu wako juu ya jambo husika hivo badala ya kushikiria mtazamo wako, wekeza kupata ufahamu zaidi juu ya hilo jambo. Huwezi ishi nje ya mitazamo yako maana mitazamo yako siku zote itachonga muundo wa maisha yako.
Friday, August 12, 2016
PROBLEMS AS OPPORTUNITIES
The factor that triggers your creativity and activates your positive mind is pressing problems. It is only when you are experiencing the pressure of problems and obstacles that you are motivated to perform at your mental best. Facing and solving the inevitable problems and difficulties of life make you stronger and smarter, and bring out the very best in you.
Most people do not understand the nature of problems. Problems are a normal and necessary part of life. They are inevitable and unavoidable. Problems come in spite of your best efforts to avoid them. Problems, therefore, come unbidden.
The only part of a problem over which you have any control is your response to your problems. Effective people respond positively and constructively to problems. In this way, they demonstrate that they have developed high levels of “response-ability”. They have developed the ability to respond effectively when unexpected or undesired difficulties occur.
Problems of all kinds bring out your very best qualities. They make you strong and resourceful. The more pressing your problems, and the more emotion you invest in solving those problems,the more creative you will become. Each time you solve a problem constructively, you become smarter and more effective. As a result,you prepare yourself for even bigger and more important problems to solve.